She is the best-selling author of Mating in Captivity Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, translated into 25 languages. She is regularly sought arou Esther Perel is recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful voices on personal and professional relationships. Known for her keen cross-cultural pulse, Esther shifts the paradigm of our approach to modern relationships. Her critically acclaimed viral TED talk reached nearly 5 million viewers in the first year. The New York Times, in a cover story, named her the most important game changer on sexuality and relationships since Dr. Fluent in nine of them, the Belgian native is a practicing psychotherapist, celebrated speaker and organizational consultant to Fortune 500 companies. So, that’s not the sense of security that we need to eliminate in our relationships.Esther Perel is recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful voices on personal and professional relationships. All of those things are awesome and they’re essential to a healthy relationship. Ideally, you should be able to rest in the knowledge that your partner loves you, that they’re faithful to you, and that they’re committed to keeping your relationship healthy and alive. In a committed relationship, you certainly should feel as though you’re able to relax and feel safe with your partner. Now that you have “your person” for life, you can relax and feel secure!. Gone are the lonely days of dates with incompatible losers gone is the exhausting quest of trying on other people to see if they fit. Here’s how it works in practice: when you enter into a long term relationship with someone - especially if you marry them! - our default assumption is to assume that that person will bring us a sense of security. She believes that “security” is one of the most harmful and pervasive misconceptions.
But the author asserts that it’s also important to eliminate some other common misconceptions that cause dysfunction in our relationships.
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